Obituaries

Barbra Siperstein, crusader for transgender rights, dies at 76

Barbra Siperstein, a crusader for transgender rights, died Sunday, two days after a law bearing her name went into effect granting New Jerseyans the right to amend the gender on their birth certificates without proof of surgery. She was 76.

Dorothy Crouch, her partner, said Ms. Siperstein died of cancer in a hospital in New Brunswick, N.J.

According to the Transgender Law Center, New Jersey is among a handful of states, including California and Oregon, that no longer require a court order, a doctor’s letter, or other medical evidence to alter a birth certificate.

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The New Jersey measure, called the Babs Siperstein Law, had been passed twice before by the Legislature but vetoed by the governor at the time, Chris Christie, a Republican. It went into effect Feb. 1.

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The law eliminates the burdensome requirement that people provide proof of surgery from a medical professional before they can change the gender category on their birth certificates. Now they can legally attest for themselves (or parents for their children) that they are male, female, or “undesignated/nonbinary.”

Garden State Equality, which calls itself New Jersey’s largest LGBT organization, said the law makes it easier for transgender, nonbinary, and intersex people to gain access to identity documents “that accurately reflect the gender they live every day, which is not necessarily the gender they were assigned at birth.”

“We all use identity documents for important tasks, such as enrolling ourselves or our children in school and college, applying for a job, opening a bank account, and applying for an apartment or mortgage,” the group said on its website, adding:

“Having documentation that matches one’s gender is vitally important, as mismatches between a person’s gender identity and their identity documents can and does result in discrimination and harassment.”

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Governor Philip D. Murphy, a Democrat, signed the legislation last year. In a statement after her death, he said Ms. Siperstein “was never shy to push us to open our hearts and minds, and to move our thinking ever forward.”

Ms. Siperstein, an Army veteran who was married with children, began her public campaign for gender equality after her wife died in 2001.

Cultivating politicians from both parties, Ms. Siperstein, who was known as Babs, was the first transgender member of the executive committee of the Democratic National Committee, serving from 2011 to 2017. She helped persuade the party to include gender identity as a category of protected rights. In 2016, she was a delegate for Hillary Clinton at the Democratic National Convention.

Ms. Siperstein also lobbied against conversion therapy to change sexual orientation or gender identity, a treatment discredited by the medical establishment, and in favor of health care programs tailored for transgender people.

Christian Fuscarino, executive director of Garden State Equality, described Siperstein as “an architect of our movement, pioneering critical civil rights legislation.”

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She was born Barry Siperstein on Nov. 20, 1942, in Jersey City to Morris and Mildred (Yanover) Siperstein. Her father was the treasurer of a paint and wallpaper retail chain started by his parents.

Ms. Siperstein ‘was never shy to push us to open our hearts and minds, and to move our thinking ever forward.’

Barry earned a bachelor’s degree from Rutgers University and a master’s of business administration in public accounting from Pace University before joining the family business, Siperstein Fords Paint Corp., in Fords, N.J. He later bred race horses as well.

Soon came marriage to Carol Slonk, an elementary schoolteacher who joined Siperstein Ford Paint as an administrative assistant. They had three children.

Barbra Siperstein was nearing 50 in the late 1980s when she told Carol Siperstein that she was transgender. Carol was supportive, and the two remained together, keeping Barbra’s orientation a secret at first.

“We kind of lived a double life for many years,” Barbra told The Star-Ledger of Newark in 2012.

Combining initials and first names, the couple invented an alias, which was how she became known, first to family and friends, as Barbra Casbar Siperstein.

In an appreciation last year on the website insidernj.com, where Ms. Siperstein was listed first on the LGBT Power List, US Senator Cory Booker of New Jersey wrote, “Babs Siperstein began her activism at a time when being transgender carried an even greater stigma than it does today.”

In addition to Crouch, Ms. Siperstein leaves her daughter, Jana Siperstein-Szucs; two sons, Jeffrey and Jared Siperstein; five grandchildren; and her sister, Sherry Grosky. She lived in Edison, N.J.

In addition to Crouch, Ms. Siperstein leaves her daughter, Jana Siperstein-Szucs; two sons, Jeffrey and Jared Siperstein; five grandchildren; and her sister, Sherry Grosky. She lived in Edison, N.J.